Going On A Second Date? Here’s What You Need To Know
Everyone always talks about the first date and how important it is. Well, it is that important because it’s a way for you and the other person to see if the attraction is even there. A second date, on the other hand, may be as important as the first one because that’s when you are supposed to “seal the deal”. What do you need to know about it?
Tips For A Second Date That You Need To Master
When you go on a second date, it means that:
- Both of you are attracted to each other to some degree.
- There’s some level of compatibility.
- Your partner said yes so she feels similar to how you feel.
Great, isn’t it? It could be the beginning of something wonderful, so that’s why second dates (seal the deal dates) are important too. So how can you plan yours?
Take Your Cues From Your Conversations
During your first date, or during your conversations over the phone, has your potential partner mentioned something that she’s always wanted to do? Rollerskating, going on a trip to a beach that’s close by or doing something that interests you both can make for a memorable second date.
Remember That Second Dates Are About Strengthening The Connection
On a previous blog post, we talked about the first dates that most married couples went on were dates that were simple. They weren’t fancy nor elaborate. One of the favorite first date activities that, now married, couples went on was going for a walk. The focus is to get to know the person that you’re meeting, so going for a walk or other uncomplicated dates are perfect.
But, for second dates, you can ham it up based on what your date likes. You have the permission to be more creative because the goal is to strengthen or explore the connection between you and your date.
Don’t Worry Too Much About What To Talk About
During a first meet, we commonly suggest for you to prepare topics to ask. During a second meet, you don’t need to worry about what to talk about because you’ve already broken the ice. Topics will come through naturally, and most of your conversations will be less conscious.
Other Tips For Second Dates
- About being touchy-feely, it will all depend on how your second date goes. If you feel like it’s going well and your date feels very comfortable around you, start with a hand-touch. Then, on your third date, you can go for a shoulder touch. You’ll be the best judge of when you need to be touchy-feely or not.
- As we mentioned, you can be more elaborate and creative with your second dates. In fact, you can be creative on your following dates after the first so let your imagination think about what’s going to give your date the best time.
We hope that the tips are going to be helpful. We have more dating tips for you on the blog so make sure you read those after reading this post. Also, don’t forget to visit AnastasiaDate if you want to meet ladies from East Europe.