Should You Date A Person With A History Of Cheating?
Love is all about second chances, right? Ideally, it is, but it’s hard to give a second chance when the person you’re giving a chance to has a history of cheating or has cheated on you in the past. AsianDate.co has talked about whether a woman can forgive you for cheating, and today we focus on whether or not you should date a cheater.
Is A History Of Cheating OK?
We always want to ask this question because we do not want to get hurt no matter how much we like the person we’re potentially going to date. We want to make sure that this person will stay true to us, and will put effort into staying faithful. We can’t be 100% sure with individuals who have a history of cheating, but these points might help you decide whether you should date one or not:
Check Past Relationship Behavior
See what his or her past relationship behavior was like. You need to do this because it could indicate how your future partner will act in your future relationship. Past behavior will be the best predictor of future behavior when the given circumstances or situation is the same.
Take A Closer Look At His Or Her History Of Cheating
Take a closer look at the person’s history of cheating – did the person do it often or was it just a one-time thing? If cheating was reoccurring, that should be a red flag. The person you want to date might have made a habit out of cheating, so you have to be careful.
When did the cheating incident happen? About a month ago or ten years ago? You need to know this because a person who cheated ten years ago, but hasn’t had an incident since, will more likely stay faithful to you compared to a person who cheated only about a month ago.
So, should you date someone who has cheated in the past? You’re the only one who can answer that question since you are the only one who can assess your current situation with a certain person. It’s also you who will have to watch out for red flags.
Love is, indeed, about second chances, but we need to be smart about who we give our love to. For more dating and relationship tips make sure to check out more posts on our blog. Don’t forget to visit AnastasiaDate too.