Is She Emotionally Ready Or Not?
It’s hard to tell if a person is emotionally ready to be in a relationship or not unless they tell you that they aren’t. When you are dating though, you automatically assume that a person is since he or she is looking for love already. But, maybe you can if you look at the signs closely.
A Woman Is Not Emotionally Ready If She Is Flaky
There are so many signs for you to watch out for to see if someone is truly emotionally ready. One of the best signs is flakiness. If a lady always flakes on you – she doesn’t show up to your online date or she disappears for days – then, it’s a sign that she may not be ready to open up to you. Other signs include:
1. She Keeps You A Secret
Does she tell the whole world about you? She actually doesn’t have to if you guys just started dating. But, if you have been together for months, there should be at least a willingness to tell, at least, her closest circle that she is dating you.
2. You Feel Like You’re Not Exclusive
Have you had the talk of exclusivity yet? If not, don’t worry. It may not be the right time to discuss such a thing yet. Give it time. But, there’s one thing you should know about being exclusive. It’s not just about dating one person. It could be exclusivity in the person’s attention. When you are together or when you are video calling, do you have her full attention?
3. Emotionally Ready People Invest Time
You have to remember that a person who is emotionally invested in you will shower you with all the time you need to allow the relationship to blossom. The person doesn’t have to dedicate all of his or her time to you, but you should feel like a priority.
If you have seen all of these three signs in your online date, it’s time to think twice about dating this person. If you’re not really looking for anything serious, then that’s fine, but if you’re into long-term relationships, then you should rethink everything. For more dating tips and updates, read other posts on the blog.